Friday, September 26, 2014

Wall of Wishes

For our wedding ceremony, we asked friends and family to mail us a quote, a wish or a blessing.  A few of them whether it was a quote or a personal note, we read outloud in the ceremony (picked out a few in the final hour that night before).  When we got home after the wedding, I finally opened a lot of the little scrolls of paper that guests themselves had brought for us and I was surprised and touched by so many of them.  Here's some favorites.

"Young lovers seek perfection. Old lovers learn the art of sewing shreds together and seeking beauty in a multiplicity of patches."
-from How to Make an American Quilt

"Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and difficult as that."
-Michael Leunig

"Love is that which holds us together... love is that which liberates us."
-Maya Angelou

"In the sweetness of friendship, let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things, the heart finds its morning and is refreshed."
-Khalil Gibran, The Prophet

"Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice.  Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet." 
-Tom Robbins

"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start at soon as possible."
-Nora Ephron

"Marriage is a not a love affair.  A love affair is a totally different thing.  Marriage is a commitment to that which you are."
-Joseph Campbell

May you enjoy, together, the smell of fresh-cut grass, the warmth of each other's hands, the snores of your dogs gently slumbering, music that makes you want to dance, and the bounty of your table, both sweet and savory.

Ray Charles said "I was born with music inside me. Music was one of my parts. Like my ribs, my kidneys, my liver, my heart. Like my blood.  It was a force within me." Thank you for sharing the music inside you, I hope you have found another of your parts in each other!

"The moon has become a dancer at this festival of love.  This dance of light, this sacred blessing, this divine love beckons us to a world beyond where only lovers can see with their eyes of fiery passion. They are the chosen ones who have surrendered."
-Jalaluddin Rumi

My wish for you to know:
the first stone's throw continues by stages
to grow into a rock of ages.

You're wished more than happy ever after. You're wished the kind of friendship that gets more fun the longer it lasts.

Let the happiness that you feel today stay in your hearts forever!

I argue thee that love is life, and life hath immortality.
-Emily Dickinson

We love without knowing how or when or from where. We love straightforwardly without complexities or pride; so we love because we know no other way than this.
-Pablo Neruda

and my favorite which just describes our day so well:

love is more thicker than forget
more thinner than recall
more seldom than a wave is wet
more frequent than to fail

it is most mad and moonly
and less it shall unbe
than all the sea which only
is deeper than the sea

love is less always than to win
less never than alive
less bigger than the last begin
less littler than forgive

it is most sane and sunly 
and more it cannot die
than all the sky which only
is higher than the sky
e.e. cummings

Tuesday, September 09, 2014

Vancouver-ation


Our honeymoon vacation to Vancouver Island in British Columbia was easily the best vacation I've had in life to date.  Sure, we were running high on the good mood of just married, but it was also extremely beautiful scenery and extremely quiet there.  The first day, we took a ferry to Saturna Island which has a population of about 300 and there were just 12 people on our ferry.  A fellow passenger suggested we follow a "goat trail" sort of hike and we found a lonely tree swing there, a vineyard that was closed for the season, and dreamy redwood trees and ocean vistas.  After that, we hired a local floatplane pilot to give us a tour from the air, and within a minute of take-off we spotted orcas in the water.

The rest of the trip we spent at a really quiet B&B in the rainforest of Tofino, a surfer town just on the outskirts of the West Coast's Pacific Rim National Park.  And on our last day before flying home, we rented bikes in Vancouver city and spent Monday riding along the sea wall and redwood forest of Stanley Park.  It was pretty unbelievable.

I've been playing with the Incredibooth app on my phone a lot this year, which turns any location into an instant photobooth - it does a pretty amazing job with blurs and backgrounds.  I also have been finally getting familiar with instagram and you can find a sample of my photos from this trip on there.